Woman refuses to be bridesmaid for her cousin: the cause is shocking

They have read a post on Reddit, which has since aroused great attention as well as debate about whether it would be fair to demand that the bridesmaids change their appearance for the sake of aesthetics.

In the post, one of the bridesmaids explains that she was going to her cousin's wedding and had been really excited to attend. However, the joy disappeared as quickly as it came when she found out that the bride demanded that all bridesmaids wear earrings – and thus she had to pierce her ears, even though she has never had holes.

The bridesmaid further explains in the posting that she is suffering from a needle forbie because she has previously experienced infections in getting her ears pierced, which is why she does not want to repeat the experience.

However, she still wanted to participate as a bridesmaid, which is why she suggested the bride that they could just carry clip-on or magnetic earrings that would fit the aesthetics of the wedding, which was, however, very, very, very quickly.

The woman then rounds off by asking whether she behaves unreasonably after refusing to make holes in her ears while expressing an understanding of the bride's desire for a coherent look, but found it unreasonable to expect a permanent body change solely for one day's sake.

The comment box on Reddit was unanimous on the bridesmaid's side. Many users emphasized that no one should be pressed to change their bodies for a wedding and that clip-on earrings are a fully acceptable solution.

« Although ear piercing is quite common, it is an unreasonable request when alternative solutions are found that look just as good. »

« It's your body and your choice. If you once decide to make holes in your ears, be sure to go to a professional piercer that uses sterilized equipment. »