The best you can do with your child during the spring break

• Parents and professionals talk about how to create lifelong experiences for our children
• Lifelong experiences do not require organization and expense
• Spent time together that gives a lifetime security and source of joy

Tomorrow begins with the spring breakParents will be better at the next few days as it comes at Easter The first this year’s long weekend. We gave tips to special European locations waiting to be discovered and It is also available to hiking places in a matter of seconds, where we are guaranteed to return home as a different person. Now, however, you can read about programs that do not require organization or even expenditure, but still enrich children with lifelong experiences.

Healing attention

If we make our heads, how to make the rare minutes together unacceptably beautiful, it is best to remember what made us happy in our childhood.

At the age of four to five, I couldn’t wait to be with my maternal grandmother. Often I did not get to the ovi in ​​the morning, but I ended up with him due to stomach pain. But it didn’t have much time to deal with me. He was baked and baked in Sparhelt, carrying the water in the garden behind the condominium in buckets. During his job, I could remember because, for example, he always washed and put aside the sour cream glasses, which I played in myself for hours for hours. When he finished work, he took hands and took him to a nearby park. He pushed for a long time in the swing or bugged in the grass for nuts and other « treasures ».

– My adult daughter still brings out the best experience of her childhood again when we came downstairs on a spring day – three years old, sat down on the sidewalk in the park and watched as the ants were massaging from one side of the sidewalk – Éva Rédli kindergarten teacher, drama teacher, mother with three children.

No need horse for ovis graduation

I think as an adult, the connection with nature is also healing, which is tangible, palpable, visible, smell, and tasteful, because all five of our senses can experience completeness and peace. You don’t have to go far. For example, around Easter, we often took the ovis to the courtyard of our own house, where there were always a couple of chickens or rabbs. And that was just enough for the kids to have a great time!

Today, however, parents should be convinced that Don’t buy a horse for kindergarten graduation just because they want their five -year -old child. On the contrary, it would be very important to set the boundaries in their interest. But many parents think that Uncovered love and « no ». But you need it. For example, When I talk to my girlfriend, my little kid sees – and learns it – that it is good to connect. And when you interfere, I look at it because I need to know how urgent your need is. If I see that he is not in danger, then I say: Wait a little, I’ll finish this now. Because you have to learn not only to connect, but also to wait.

They need their companions

– When I was a kid, we were happy to set up imaginary rooms from thistle for hours. Of course, they also needed companions. Others must have seen the documentary that shows the same street in the seventies and today. Then he was full of kids, now it’s empty. I I took my mind to bring the kids out on the streets where I live and convince the parents that they would not be kidnapped. For Flower Sunday I organized a big walk around the area and I saw that They are starving people to be together. The children melted and said goodbye to the parents at the beginning, and they talked to each other. For such an experience, you don’t have to go to the City Park or Jánoshegy Lookout.

My grandfather promised to sleep outside the meadow

« I hear a lot from my parents that » I can’t wait to start the ovi because I can’t stand it, « he said Stefi Szélpál kindergarten teacher, drama teacher, big family mom and grandmother. Very sad as I know that The kid gets the most from us, adults when we « do nothing » together, That is, for example, we lie in the grass and look at the clouds. There are plenty of emotionally and incredible developmental effects.

When I was a kid, my grandfather promised to sleep on the meadow one day. They took the Sezlon with my uncle, and we were crouching there at dusk. He began by saying that the crickets would soon be speaking, and so it was. Then we watched the birds slowly calmed down, only a night bird was screaming, and first with the morning dawn, the stars came up in a nice row. I’ve been 63 years old since then but from this night I spend every day, I got so much knowledge from my nearly 80 -year -old grandfather.

And when I get here with this story in the camps because I often tell you There will always be silencebecause today’s kids desire that. Not for expensive playhouses and gifts, but for such connection and attention, and that would be open, cheerful, compassionate.

It is quite different on the special playground where everyone spins crazy, and with a mother, two in nature when I know I’m just for her now, she’s just watching me now. And not interested in what point, grade I got, or whether I was in the ovis color all day long because Not about my performance, but about me. To my feelings, my possible fears.

Last time, a third girl told me she thought that pollution was like being beaten with an ax and can only be stopped by saying that we finish it because The most important word in life is together.

We sit down at a table and talk, toss stones on the Danube. Very simple things, but this is the acid-wine of life, because there is one who listens. Such time spent together gives a lifetime security and source of joy.