Cherry from ‘Marriage to the First’ revealed to us: I was not under pressure. Connection? I choose myself!
For the first time since a sociological experiment has been displayed in Croatia ‘Marriage on first’experts can throw out couples that they estimate that their relationship is not going in the right direction. This season that decision has fallen on Višnja Filipčić Čabrajec and Darko Kivaca.
« Honestly, it was difficult for me to accept that decision at the time, but now I think it was the best thing that could have happened to me, » Višnja admitted.
When asked if she would agree to an experiment like this again, he replies decisively: ‘No, I need peace for now and I don’t think about it. But to re -make such a decision, I would certainly act otherwise because I have learned that if there is no foundation for real relationships, they cannot even be built ‘.
Watching yourself on the screen was not easy.
– Some situations, especially those in which I was under pressure, do not show all of me. But that taught me to look at myself with more understanding – he admits.
Still, throughout the experience, Cherry also found a bright side – friendship.
– Some people became honest friends to me. These relationships were created from mutual understanding and support. That has become one whole of my life, ”he says.
Her family went through a wide range of emotions, looking at her on small screens.
– There was everything – pride, worry, tears and laughter. But the most important thing is that they were with me, without condemnation. Support, both known and unknown people, was a huge strength for me – Cherry is grateful.
From the experiment, she says, she came out with important lessons.
– I learned how strong I can be, but also how much more I need to work on setting the borders. I gave a lot of understanding and yielding in situations where I should no longer. Every step, even the wrong one, taught me something worth it – he admits.
Love status?
– I’m not in a relationship right now. I choose myself – Cherry concludes.
